- Mar 22, 2019
- 3 min
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Wellbeing Hack 15:
Join (or leave) a group
Some risky behaviours, like sexting, seem hard to explain. But looking at the way groups affect us is a useful way to understand these behaviours.
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Each group that we feel part of gives us a social identity. We all have a strong instinct to listen to the voices of other people in the groups which are important to us.
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If the people in our groups are telling us that sexting is normal it becomes very hard to go against them, because that means questioning our very identity.
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We need to question whether the groups we belong to are good – that is, do they give us social identities which make us feel valued and help us to be someone we like?
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Being part of a lot of groups is useful because it means that we are not dependent on any single group to provide us with a sense of identity.
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Sometimes it’s hard to leave a group which we know is not good. But looking for allies, getting pre-set phrases ready, and thinking about celery can all help.
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- Mar 14, 2019
- 4 min
What Nicki Minaj can teach you about social identities
Social identity theory is based on two assumptions: We define ourselves as both an individual (our individual identity) and as a member...
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